So...it has literally been almost a full year since I have blogged. Sad, I know. Well, my cousin (younger of course) got married this weekend. That would be it. As in I am the only one left in my family over the age of 16 that is not or has not been married. This news is not my absolute favorite thing to discuss but it's also not the worst. Yes I am 31. Yes I am single. No I do not have a boyfriend. Does that make me any less of a person? No, no it does not. I am a HAPPY girl. I get to go on vacations, I get to go out on weekends and act silly with my friends and yes, I still get to sleep past 10:00am sometimes. Does that make me lazy? Nope. It does however make it hard to recharge when the work week comes. haha.....no matter how much fun I have on a weekend my body is definitely not the same as it used to be. This is all coming up because nothing annoys me more than people saying, "Oh whens it your turn." Or...."When will we see you walking down the isle?" Or...my personal favorite.... "You're next!" Really? I have been hearing that for quite awhile now. haha I love my married friends and I know most are super happy and that honestly makes ME super happy. However, I am not a fan of married people that make you feel SUPER single. Not cool man, not cool at all. I will find my guy when the time is right. (I have this feeling since God is making me wait so long, this guy is going to be OH SO amazing haha) But until then, I am happy being me and living my life with my awesome friends (married and unmarried). I one day will have true love. And yes I know that exists because I was enormously blessed enough to see it in my mom and dad. That is the kind of love I want, and that is the kind of love I will wait for. The man (my dad), who after 25 years of marriage, still looked at his wife (my mom) and said "Gosh I love you more than anything," who held her hand, who said he loved her every single day multiple times. I have seen it and I know it exists. Soul mates are the real deal and I just haven't met mine yet. It'll happen when it's supposed to!
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Oh, Anna, I love you! I love your passion and your humor - don't let insane people bother you. I have a feeling people project onto you because they don't want to sit around thinking about their own crappy marriages.
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Jeannie is so right. People are insecure and jealous and they project it on other people. I, for one, am totally jealous that you get occasionally sleep until 10. Sounds like you are the smart one. You are awesome and you don't need someone else to make you awesome like a lot of other people do.
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I so love y'all. I was just feeling sorry for myself haha.....it is nice to sleep till 10 but it's also nice to have an adorable family to wake up to :) we are all lucky and blessed with wherever we are in our lives. Cause that's exactly where WE are supposed to be!
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